Are you over the soulless swiping and scrolling? Tired of apps that drain your time, energy, and—let’s be real—your sanity? Sick of chatting with guys who flake, aren’t genuine, or are always emotionally unavailable? Fed up with men who’ll say anything just to get you into bed, only to ghost or disappear once they’ve got their validation or sexual needs met? If you’re done with situationships that go nowhere, and craving something real, it’s time for The Gay Wingman—the community that’s here to make dating fun again. Because honestly, shouldn’t it be?

We’re not another dating app; we’re a vibrant community of gay wingmen offering exciting events and a coaching and mentoring program designed to help you attract your ideal partner. This is where you’ll find your tribe—like-minded men who’ve got your back and are also seeking that special connection. With us, you’ll join a unique squad filled with support, laughter, and genuine conversations, alongside expert gay relationship coaches who will help you clear your baggage, rediscover yourself, and prepare you to meet your dream guy. Plus, we’re bringing it all back to where it matters most—face-to-face IRL events that'll put you in front of real connections, not just profiles.

Our events? They’re designed to make dating genuinely exciting—think speed dating, flirty mixers, and even dating workshops and retreats where you can dive deep and connect with fellow wingmen. Ever tried dating bingo or truth or dare roulette? We’ve got those, too! Plus, enjoy entertainment from fabulous drag queens and moments that’ll have you laughing, connecting, and maybe even blushing a little. And if that wasn’t enough, playful locker room affirmations from admiring suitors will leave you feeling encouraged and confident. It’s all about fun, new connections, and getting out there!

Even if you don’t meet your Mr. Right right away, you’ll gain a whole squad of new mates—because we know how hard it can be to make genuine, quality friends. And who doesn’t want more wingmen by their side?

No matter what kind of gay you are or the relationship you’re after, we’ve got space for you. We’re all about being inclusive and body positive—no judgment, no cliques, just a bunch of guys who are ready to get off the apps and back into life.

Ready to stop scrolling, swiping and start connecting? Join us at one of our events, or in our online community where the fun starts and the possibilities are endless. Let’s find your Mr. Right—or at least a few fabulous new friends—together!